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How To Be Your Best Self!

How To Be Your Best Self!

You can discover how to be your best self by following these simple and straight forward steps:

  • How to be your best self- Step 1

*Identify your purpose
If you are drifting through life without direction, with the hope to discover contentment, health and wealth, then you need to determine your life purpose or mission statement and you will have your own distinctive compass that will guide you to your truth north all the time.


  • How to be your best self- Step 2

* Know your values
What do you value most? List your top three values. Compare and contrast your goals against your values. If the goal doesn’t align with any of your top three values get rid of it.

  • How to be your best self- Step 3

* Determine your needs
Unmet needs will stop you from living a genuine life. Take care of yourself. List your top five needs and get them met before it’s too late!

  • How to be your best self- Step 4

* What are your passions?
You know who you are and what you truthfully like in life. Express yourself and honour the people who have inspired you to become the very person you wanted to be.

  • How to be your best self- Step 5

* Live from the inside out
Commune with nature by breathing deeply to quiet your distracted mind and learn to listen to what your heart is saying.


  • How to be your best self- Step 6

*Honour your strengths
What are your positive traits? Find ways to express your authentic self through your strengths. You can increase your self-confidence when you willingly share what you know with others.


  • How to be your best self- Step 7

* Serve others
When you live genuinely, you will find out that you develop an interconnected sense of being. When you are true to who you are, living your purpose and giving of your talents to the world around you, you give back in service what you came to share with others -your spirit – your essence. The rewards for sharing your gift with those close to you are indeed pleasing, much more if it were to be the eyes of a stranger who can appreciate what you have done to them.

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Set and Achieve Your Goals – The Right Way!

Depending on the current situation, resources, physical capacity and other factors, people set their goals differently, you can, however, follow some guidelines to make sure that your goals are credible and possible. Too many individuals set their goals too high unknowingly, only to lose and get disappointed for life. Here are four simple tips for you.


Being Specific

Goals need to be specific, so that you know which part of the process you’re currently in and the particular ways on how you will achieve it. Most people have goals to get promoted, get rich, improve relationship and the likes, but these are very vague and your mind can become confused about what you truly mean. General descriptions usually do not have boundaries, so you always leave room for mistakes and compromise. If you want results that you can be proud of, be specific!

To be specific, you need to include the full details. Write down something like, “I want to get $1 million by October of this year.” or “I need to become key supervisor of the sales division by next week.” or “I want my kids, Taylor and Chad, to become best friends beginning tomorrow.” Include the names, the position, the amount, the date and everything else needed to train your mind to start working towards that goal.


Being Measurable

Goals need to be measurable so that you can gauge how well you have done lately. To help measure your paths and goals, you should include measurable details. For your job, you can include details such as the number of hours you’re working, the amount you’re earning, the staff you’re handling, etc. For the goal of money, you can include details such as the amount you want to have as a whole, the number of companies or businesses you own, your contact persons, etc. Always have things and items to be measured so you can understand how close you are to getting your goals. If your goal is to earn $100,000 a month, then you know you’re halfway there if you’re already earning $50,000 a month.


Being Attainable and Realistic

Only set goals that can possibly be accomplished. Some people set goals that are too high to reach, that they are almost setting up things that are impossible. Make sure you only set objectives that you can reach within a given amount of time, provided the current resources and capabilities you have. Some examples of impossible goals are doubling your salary overnight, getting a promotion higher than your boss’s position, etc. Some goals can be achieved faster compared to others if you have some strengths and paths to back these up. Always include a strategic plan for big objectives.



Set deadlines to achieve your goals else you are never going to finish anything. Be specific when setting timelines and schedules. For example, indicate things like “To spend an hour with my wife everyday starting tomorrow (indicate exact date and year)”. Setting the exact time and date will spur you to start working on your goals, instead of putting it off for another available time. Some goals can take years to accomplish so it is wiser to break these down into smaller objectives, still complete with deadlines. You can finish everything in a sequence to finally reach the biggest one.